Parenting Trend: Just f****** relax
Yeah, it’s been a slow month on the blog here. I was on paternity leave (yes, we do take them in Europe). So, funnily enough, I just have some parenting trends to report on.
First off, ever since that “Go to F*** to Sleep” book came out, everyone’s in a tizzy. In Germany, STERN magazine caught their cue and made a big deal about how research shows that kids really don’t want perfect parents. Really? Thanks for being Prussian about it, but it’s not like you ever have the option to get perfect parents, so here’s toasting to stating the obvious.
However, being a new parent myself, I can’t say a little pressure release wouldn’t help. Is our society bent on providing perfection to mitigate risk for our kids? Yeah. Apart from the whole notion being an impossible endeavor perpetuating mishigas in the first place - it also isn’t healthy. Learning from mistakes is what makes great individuals stand out. Not that this should give parents a wildcard for abandoning their role decreed by nature - but it calls for another book called “Parents? Just f****** relax”. For, as many things you are trying to do right (as you should), just as many will go “wrong”.
Now, if you have any business with brands in the toddler, kids, adolescent area, this means that you could provide some relief for parents as opposed to creating more tasks and reminders for parents to do their jobs. Yet this is what most brands do, admonishing already stressed out, already caring people to go ‘the extra mile’. Go easy on the “solutions” you might have for parents. Provide peace of mind instead. Rest assured, parents are still gonna worry enough about their offspring no matter what you do to give them 5 minutes off.
All of this is encapsulated amazingly well - and quite subliminally clear - when you listen to Werner Herzog read the oh so famed book.
Thanks to Ninja and Sung for the parental inspiration.


